come to grips with
开始理解、应对或处理一个具有挑战性的问题或情况
口语·书面语·表示面对并处理困难
英文释义
to face or deal with a difficult or challenging situation
例句
It took her months to come to grips with the loss of her job and start looking for new opportunities.
典故来源
源自摔跤或搏斗中“抓住对手”的动作，比喻开始认真面对并处理棘手问题，强调主动应对。